''The main issue we face is confusion, about who we are and what we should be,'' said Qin Liwen, a magazine columnist.
''Should I be a 'strong woman' and make money and have a career, maybe grow rich, but risk not finding a husband or having a child?
Or should I marry and be a stay-at-home housewife, support my husband and educate my child?
Or, should I be a 'fox' -- the kind of woman who marries a rich man, drives around in a BMW but has to put up with his concubines?''
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